As a person Sheehan is really a very distraught woman- typical grieving mother who wants to blame someone for her son’s death.
Nobody will have sympathy for her unless society can understand how grief/mourning can totally consume a person.
I really don’t agree with how this mother has conducted herself in a very very public way- she has been totally off what society considers normal and is destroying herself and the family around her. BUT I can have extreme empathy for her as a person who struggles to make sense of a intense death. Nobody expects to bury their own child, and unless anyone on this duck pond has gone their own journey this way- will fully understand.
Society thinks anyone who has a death can begin to function again after three days.
That is not always the case and it is totally an individual journey that everyone will travel. How we do it and with what kind of support, family- spiritual etc all comes into play—- but I can promise you one thing.
When it is intense and deep- it will come out in way or another= people will either explode- like Sheehan or implode like the guy who buried his grief for 20 + years and then turned his rage on a bunch of innocent school children in a one room schoool house in Lancaster, PA….
Sadly she thinks she is right in what she is doing and is driven to blame others- that blame won’t bring her boy back and dishonors others and most likely her own son but you are right she won’t make any political blimps on the national screen but she is really in need of good mental health help to protect society & herself from any “postal” incidents.